stupid asshole.

i have no other way of saying it... than stupid asshole. scott strikes again. and this time, i am done. finally and officially done. he's been lying to me. and leading me on and generally not being fair. which really sucks because i thought he was different. let me give the short version of what happened: on thursday we talked for work. i needed to know the status of something so i called him. we talked a long time and then he asked what i was up to this weekend and i told him going out with friends, blah, blah. then i asked him and he said he was coming to chicago with a friend who used to live here and i was all what?!?!?! and so then he took it back and said he was joking and that he was actually skiing. i couldn't quite tell, but i took it as a mean joke.

then on friday, he called me b/c of the same work thing. and i jokingly asked him what time his flight to chicago was. and he said, 6:30 tonight. ASSHOLE! so he was coming to chicago with his girlfriend WHO HE HAS BEEN SEEING SINCE SEPTEMBER!!!!!!!! he didn't know where they were staying except somewhere near lincoln park (um, hello that's my neighborhood) and he didn't know where they are going. he thought chicago would be big enough city for us not to run in to eachother. luckily we didn't this weekend, but it would have totally been my luck to see him had i not known with his girlfriend. way to think about my feelings and lead me on. that's complete bs.

as of last september - at the capwest conference at the st regis - we were still hooking up! we hooked up that whole weekend! until girls night - when most of you met him. then in october, at another conference, we had a talk where he totally lead me on and made me believe that if it was meant to be it would work out and that he missed me and thought about me all the time. and that he didn't want to hear about other guys.

have i not learned my lessons?? even the guys i think are different turn out to be the same. arghhhh. i seriously thought that after mike, i'd be able to read guys a little better and this one seemed so different... guess not. and that is why, we are completely done. i sent him an email telling him that we were not friends and that he is erased from my email and my phone.